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Monday, August 15, 2011

人生就像茶叶蛋,有裂痕才入味

最近买了一本书,名为《人生就像茶叶蛋,有裂痕才入味》。。。
我特别喜欢这句话,真的很贴切。。。
一个人一生一帆风顺,从不识失败的滋味是什么,走到了人生的尽头,回过头来一看,我的这一生好像就这么过了。。。
有时候想想,难道一帆风顺不好吗?无忧无虑过完一辈子,比别人幸运幸福多了,这样的人生有什么好嫌弃的?


可是,这样的人生,我们体会不到生活的真谛。我们来世上走这一遭,就是为了体验人间百态,尝试酸甜苦辣各种滋味,这才是人生。如果你这一生只尝过甜滋味,那该多么无聊啊。。。到了离去的那一刻,也许会觉得遗憾,毕竟我们错过了许多东西,体验不到另一种人生的美好。好比说穷苦人家,虽然生活过得清苦,但他们的快乐也很简单。在我们眼中,他们的生活之辛苦,很多人是想象不到的,自然更无法了解有些人为什么会为了一些微不足道的事而快乐呢?


尤其是现在的小孩,随着生活水平越来越好,从小在父母呵护下长大,根本不知道有人可能一天吃不上一餐,天天为了温饱而劳累奔波。这些是他们看不到的,因为在家里,自然有人会准备三餐,自然父母会给零用钱,一切都是那么理所当然,理应大家应该都是过一样的生活的。没有人告诉他们生活也可以很苦,父母只一心小心翼翼呵护他们长大,把最好的生活给他们,却忽略了教一个从未跌倒的小孩,将来若跌倒了,该怎么靠自己的力量爬起来。


成功的滋味都差不多,但失败的滋味却有千百种。所以成功的果实虽美好但却不能让人成长,唯有失败才能让人成长。这就好比煮茶叶蛋,外壳光洁的茶叶蛋看起来赏心悦目,但直到剥开蛋壳,才会发现里面一片惨白,尝起来也没什么味道;表面龟裂的茶叶蛋一点也不漂亮,甚至看起来有点凄惨,但直到剥开蛋壳,才会知道它色泽美丽,吃起来香醇,让人回味无穷。


虽然苦难会让我们伤痕累累,但它同时也让我们“入味”,得以成为一个更完整,更美好的人。


打个比方,我本人很喜欢看星光大道,也很喜欢唱歌。每次听到评审老师称赞参赛选手唱得好时,我很希望自己也能像他们一样,有一天也能把歌唱得那么好听。打动人心的歌曲,通常必须唱得富有情感,这并不是普普通通随口唱出就能唱出那种感觉的。你必须经历过一些历练,才能诠释歌曲要表达的意境。我想这对我来说还很难,因为我人生历练还不够,没办法唱出那种感觉。我想人都是必须经历过了才会成长,失败过了才知道离成功有多近。


我觉得我的人生现在就像表面光滑亮丽的茶叶蛋,正等待着失败将我的外壳打碎,让我入味。

Saturday, August 13, 2011

从Ipoh Parade游到Jusco......*^____^*

前天,也就是811日,难得有得出去走走的机会
开学到现在,除了第一个礼拜,几乎没什么时间好玩,一直到最近才把所有assignment交完了,才能稍微松懈一下,很可怜吧?(╯︿╰﹀


今天湘铃妹妹来怡保,原本是为和她吃晚餐顺便来买鞋的。。结果她妹太迟到了,而我们要赶回家,结果就没聚到了。。。

出门的时候还很开心,因为要去买鞋,用参加UTAR RUN免费赠送的 RM120 coupon去买。原本打算买双鞋孝敬我老爸,结果。。。结果??没想到竟然是不能用的?!!
因为在那个店里我们找不到Brooks这牌子的鞋子,于是我便拿着那张coupon问那个店员。。。

我:“ Coupon ini boleh guna tak (..) ? ?"
她:“ Tak boleh.”
我:“ Huh?? Tak boleh a? >_ < ? ?”
她:“ Tak boleh.”

为什么不可以用?!╰_╯明明去对了地方 (Ipon Parade Al-Ikhsan) 截止日期也还没到阿~~为什不能用?::>_<:: 
我们两个直接显掉。。。
一百二十块就这样飞走了~~ \(╯-╰)/
出发前我还打电话跟我爸说要买双鞋给他,他还开玩笑说搞不好人家故意把鞋子价钱抬高,你们拿着coupon去买也是一样贵的啦~~我还跟他说不会的拉。。价钱哪可能乱改。。。结果那张coupon根本是废纸一个,亏我们之前还拿着那张coupon高兴了很久,直到昨天。。。。=  =



既然不能用就算了吧~~
去吃东西开心一下。。哈哈

去吃很久没吃的士林
湘铃点了那个什么蛋卷的。。。
我点了甜不辣。。
虽然说是“甜不辣”,可是真的一点也不甜,而且很辣。
哈哈。。。



吃饱后,为了修身养性,就到popular逛逛拉。。。结果买了一本书,书名叫《人生就像茶叶蛋,有裂痕才入味》。在那里翻了翻,觉得蛮好看的就买下来了。黄桐写的书,我之前也买过,不知不觉竟然又买到了同一个作者的书,应该是他的写作风格满符合我口味吧~ 湘铃也不错,一口气买了两本,还说想去在KLCC办的海外华文书市看看。。。哇。。。真的突然变得很有文学气息咯~~哈哈。。。
其实,生命中的所有挫折与伤痛,都是人生不可或缺的香料。
买好了书后,就到下一站 -- Jusco 逛逛拉。。。之前就曾经看到有人说Jusco开了Wok Sifu。。。那之后一直很想去吃,可是一直没机会。。。现在,机会来啦~~哇哈哈\(^_^)(^_^)/... ...

到了那里之后,当然直接杀Wok Sifu去大快朵颐拉~~~哈哈
我这个人真的是很犯贱阿。。。明明刚才吃了士林后,一点也不饿,甚至可以说有一点饱的感觉,可是,看到菜单后,就是硬硬要点一样菜来吃就对了。。。都来到这里了,哪里可能不吃?就算硬撑我也要吃,那样才甘心。。。哈哈哈。。。
Best Seller!! DELICIOUS BEE BEEM BAB~~~ ^_^

SNOW FLAKE~~~❤❤❤


我点了best seller的石锅拌饭,湘铃点了XO炒饭(不是很好吃),然后我们再share一碗芒果雪花冰。。。虽然我的石锅拌饭很好吃,但由于肚子有限的关系,吃到最后就是硬撑,勉勉强强把那锅饭吃完了。。。

        

美味的石锅拌饭。。。<@_@>
                 


这里的东西应该还蛮不错的。。。可以去试试看。。。
可是那个炬饭还是不要点比较好,因为很腻。。哈哈
吃太饱了,会有点恶心。。。

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Do you hate someone?

A nice story with a good moral. Please go through.
A kindergarten teacher has decided to let her class play a game.The teacher told each child in the class to bring along a plastic bag containing a few potatoes.


Each potatoes will be given a name of a person that the child hates, so the number of potatoes that a child will put in his/her plastic bag will depend on the number of people he/she hates.


So when the day came, every child brought some potatoes with the name of the people he/she hated.Some had 2 potatoes; some 3 while some up to 5 potatoes. The teacher then told the children to carry with them the potatoes in the plastic bag wherever they go (even to the toilet) for 1 week.


Days after days passed by, and the children started to complain due to the unpleasant smell let out by the rotten potatoes. Besides, those having 5 potatoes also had to carry heavier bags. After 1 week, the children were relieved because the game had finally ended...


The teacher asked: "How did you feel while carrying the potatoes with you for 1 week?" The children let out their frustrations and started complaining of the trouble that they had to go through having to carry the heavy and smelly potatoes wherever they go.


Then the teacher told them the hidden meaning behind the game. The teacher said: "This is exactly the situation when you carry your hatred for somebody inside your heart. The stench of hatred will contaminate your heart and you will carry it with you wherever you go. If you cannot tolerate the smell of rotten potatoes for just 1 week, can you imagine what is it like to have the stench of hatred in your heart for your life time?" 


This story told us that we should throw away any hatred for anyone from our heart... so that we will not carry the sins for a lifetime. Forgiving others is the best attitude to take....


Quote: 
True love is not loving a PERFECT person but loving  an IMPERFECT person perfectly.

The Rose


Some say love, it is a river
That drowns the tender reedhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
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Some say love, it is a razorhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
That leaves your soul to bleedhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
Some say love, it is a hungerhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
An endless aching needhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
I say love, it is a flowerhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
And you, its only seed

It's the heart, afraid of breaking
That never learns to dancehttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
It's the dream, afraid of wakinghttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
That never takes the chance
It's the one who won't be takenhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gifhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
Who cannot seem to givehttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
And the soul, afraid of dyinghttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
That never learns to livehttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif

When the night has been too lonelyhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
And the road has been too longhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
And you think that love is onlyhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
for the lucky and the stronghttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
Just remember in the winterhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
Far beneath the bitter snowhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
Lies the seedhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
That with the sun's love, in the springhttp://theroselyrics.com/1x1.gif
Becomes the rose


I love this song so much...
Don't know why...this song can calm down my heart...it did...
First time listen to this song was through the guitar version played by Sungha Jung...
"It was amazing...why I never heard this song before? Luckily I found it..." this is what I feel when first time listening to this song....
I know there had been many version covered by other singers....the original version is sang a guy...but I don't know who is him exactly...
I love Olivia's cover very much~~~
Olivia's voice really killing me softly...&( ^__^ )&
That is no longer be "killing me softly with his song"
It should be killing me softly with her song~~ ^_^